People come
into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you
know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have
expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty. to provide you
with guidance and support, to aid you physically emotional or spiritually. They
may seem like godsend and they are there for a reason you need them to be.
Then without
any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say
something to bring the relationship to and end. Sometimes they die, sometimes
they just walk away.Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What
we must realize is that our need has been met our desire fulfilled. Their work
is done.
The prayer
you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share grow or
learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.They may teach
something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelieveable amount of
joy. Believe, it is real. But only for a season.
Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime
lessons. Things you must build upon in
order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson.
Love the person and put what you have learned, to use in all other relationship
and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind, and friendship is
clairvoyant.
Sometimes people
come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there.
They serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you
are or who you want to become.
You never
know who these people may be; your roommate, your neighbour, professor, long
lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger, who when you lock eyes with
them, you know that very moment, that they will affect your life in some
profound way. And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem
horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection, you realize that without
overcoming those obtacles, you would never have realized your potential,
strength, will power of heart.
Everything
happens for a reason. Nothing happens by a chance or by means of good or bad
luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments, or true greatness and sheer
stupidity, all occur to test the limits of the soul. Without these small tests,
if they be events, illnesses, or relationships, life would be like a smooth
paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and
utterly pointless.
The people
you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they
are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experience can be learned
from... Those lessons are the hardest. And probably the most important ones
is...
If someone
hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have
helped you learn about trust, and importance of being cautions to whom you open
your heart.
If someone
loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but
because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes, to
things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make
everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you
possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people
you have never talked before, and actually listen, set your sights sigh.
You can make
your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
Thank you
for being a part of my life. Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
I wish you
all the best in your endeavors as well as struggle in life. Have a fighting
spirit and never hesitate to get back in struggle.