for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. 

When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty. to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically emotional or spiritually. They may seem like godsend and they are there for a reason you need them to be.

Then without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say something to bring the relationship to and end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they just walk away.Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met our desire fulfilled. Their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. 

Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.They may teach something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelieveable amount of joy. Believe, it is real. But only for a season.

Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons. Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson. Love the person and put what you have learned, to use in all other relationship and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind, and friendship is clairvoyant.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there. They serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be; your roommate, your neighbour, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger, who when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment, that they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection, you realize that without overcoming those obtacles, you would never have realized your potential, strength, will power of heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by a chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments, or true greatness and sheer stupidity, all occur to test the limits of the soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses, or relationships, life would be like a smooth paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experience can be learned from... Those lessons are the hardest. And probably the most important ones is... 

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust, and importance of being cautions to whom you open your heart. 

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes, to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked before, and actually listen, set your sights sigh.

You can make your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

Thank you for being a part of my life. Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

I wish you all the best in your endeavors as well as struggle in life. Have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back in struggle.